Hi, everyone!!!

I hope you are all well and for many I know it's a struggle what you are going thru.

I did not realize how long it has been since my last update.

The D was final almost 2 months ago--can you believe it?????

Am I sad--no, not at all!!!

I am just so relieved and honestly, I am in a very happy place right now. Sure, I am still looking for a job but I never thought I could see the light at the end of the tunnel.

There is a guy -- yes--but he lives in my hometown. We are in contact everyday and it has been the best...many of my friends who still live back there know him well and it's been such a wild time. We are the same age, used to run around with the same group of people but we never knew each other growing up!!!

My uncle knew his father so its not like he is a stranger...and my parents were just back there for a visit and visiting just two blocks from where he lives. He even told me to give them his number in case they needed anything.

So yeah, we email, we text, he called me from the NASCAR race he attended...there are ILY's said back and forth, its been really nice and best of all--a lot of talking about everything you can imagine.

Or we'll watch the same shows and text back and forth. My youngest laughs and says I am text dating.

My girls are doing great.

The youngest began her first year of college in Boston and she also works as a CNA. My middle child is still in South Carolina, 3rd year of college and she is doing fine. My son is still working and does well at his job.

Like I said--I am so relieved and happy. Life is good but has its bumps in the road along the way.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19