Trying not to care but finding that pretty difficult.
I don't think it's about not caring. Of course you are going to care. Have you read the thread about how to lovingly detach? Check it out.
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
His answer to me was "You're just suspicious, because that's the kind of person you are. Sneaky and suspicious." Only recently did I get more of a real answer, but the fact that he answered me this way at the time was and is extremely troubling.
I think that goes directly to trust, so I'm not surprised by that at all. Rebuilding trust is very difficult and I'm only at the beginning stages of this myself. I "choose" to trust my W right now, but she's not doing a whole lot on the other side of the fence to try to build it. I don't think he's gonna choose to trust, at least not yet (though you'll discuss it in retrouv if you guys go), so what are you doing to rebuild it?
