Needing some guidance... 6

[needgrace]

((((((((((((((((jks)))))))))))))

i agree with the posts above.. it may not be time to hear about his life, i know that i can not do that right now with my STBXW. it tears me up too much and i am doing what is best for me right now.

is there a way to make the exchanges short and act as if you are busy and don't have time to chat?

there is so much more out there for you jks, for all of us.. i tell myself that this is my time for emotional healing and it will be painful as healing can be.. but it will set me up for more and healthier love in my world in the future. i find that i can sit with this pain easier when i remember that..

and a good therapist and ADs help too