Regarding custody, i have been advised to document what i do with and for my son and have done so since before she moved out.

Last Wednesday, i let her know about the scout trip to the pumpkin farm, but she declined because she felt the other moms have something against her and that she would feel uncomfortable.

Thats for her to deal with. Her own shame and guilt. She said 2 of them unfriended het on facebook after she moved out, but i think it was her who did that. She did not want friends of mine having access to her facebook page.

I dont have enough money for a retainer fee for a lawyer for court. Also, once i appear in court to get a custody order determined, i will also be appearing for the divorce. I want to delay that for the time being.

As it is now, i have had 100 % custody and the only thing i see a court order would do is to decrease that time i have with him. She is not current qualified, but without hard evidence i doubt i can prove that.

The county sheriff has come by and taped his business card to the door when i was not home from February through May, buy not through the summer months. I am still covered by her health insurance and have some herniated critical disc problems that need to be attended to.

Per legal advice, judges prefer to continue the best interests of the child by maintaining the status quo.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012