sorry she said 80% was HER fault for not speaking up --
Lose the scorecard. What that MAY really mean (TO HER) is you were horrible to her but can't help it, and she was a martyr...which she now regrets...
Yes I think this is true - she told me in November that she loves to be a Martyr !!! I just didn't understand it like I do now !!! -- It is so nice to see someone whose marriage was restored -- Thank you so much for your help !!!
Sunny
Me-49 W-41 M-9yrs T-15 6 year old boy She turned 40 and BAZINGA W gave me the ILYBINILWY speech - Oct 2011 next day she came out of it for a month like we were newly weds - Distant and cold from 12/11 to 1/12 I Don't love you at all 2/14/2012 I don't remember a day in my life when I loved you 3/31/2012 I want a divorce Haven't made love since January 2012 Haven't kissed or touched since March 2012 Threatening to call mediator since 6/2012 Still in the same house, separate bedrooms The Joy of the Lord is my strength
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!