Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Originally Posted By: SunnyBurst
sorry she said 80% was HER fault for not speaking up --


Lose the scorecard. What that MAY really mean (TO HER) is you were horrible to her but can't help it, and she was a martyr...which she now regrets...


Yes I think this is true - she told me in November that she loves to be a Martyr !!! I just didn't understand it like I do now !!! -- It is so nice to see someone whose marriage was restored -- Thank you so much for your help !!!


Sunny



Me-49 W-41
M-9yrs T-15
6 year old boy
She turned 40 and BAZINGA
W gave me the ILYBINILWY speech - Oct 2011 next day she came
out of it for a month like we were newly weds - Distant and cold from 12/11 to 1/12
I Don't love you at all 2/14/2012
I don't remember a day in my life when I loved you 3/31/2012 I want a divorce
Haven't made love since January 2012
Haven't kissed or touched since March 2012
Threatening to call mediator since 6/2012
Still in the same house, separate bedrooms
The Joy of the Lord is my strength


If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!