Things seem a little better, but H says that he feels like there is a "block" when he tries to get close to me? I don't know what that means and didn't want to push the issue, but it worries me.
Don't worry about it. Watch for baby steps, not giant moves. Have you read DR yet? It goes into this. Drop your expectations and accept the baby steps as signs that things are moving in the right direction. If things seem better than that's a great sign, but don't sweat every little thing H tells you because you're going to hear a lot of conflicting info for a while. That's why one of the DB tips is not to believe anything you hear and only half of what you see.
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He is away on a hunting trip, back in our home town for a few days, I feel like his sisters want us to D and he is staying with one of them. I really hope I'm wrong but they all hate me cause they blame me for moving their little bro away from them.
Again, don't worry about those things. They'll eat you up and you could be wrong. I think it was Denver that said he used to obsess about what his W's friends and relatives were telling her to do, then he found out after they reconciled that in fact the people he thought were working against him were actually telling his W to give him another chance. But regardless of what they're telling your H, it doesn't change your DB approach because you are working on YOU.
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I know I over think stuff, I need to stop.
We all do, it's hard not to. Just don't let it affect your actions. Vent about it here, it helps you to let it go so it doesn't affect you.
