well I'm glad you recall the caveman theory - I am.

But I'm not getting WHY you made comment I've mentioned 3- 4 times now AND OR

what it is you specifically that you are changing?
. You are doing what - to prove financial acumen now?

Are you saving or budgeting together? Investing?

What is it that you can do that will enable her to feel financially secure? (You're allowed to ask her btw).

OTOH beware of women who want their h's to earn more for the wrong reasons.

Do you think the real "her" is in there somewhere? IF SO, why? IF NOT, why?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change