If I don't ask him to leave (and there is always a possibility he will say no), how do I set constructive boundaries while he is in the house? Can I literally make him move into the spare room? (Right now his clothes are still in my room) and I wonder how my daughter would react to that. Can you give me some suggestions on "how to act" everything is fine?
I am not brushing him off at all. When he actually does talk, I listen intently, and respond honestly. But I can't sit in the living room with him and watch him text with OW, it hurts too much and causes anxiety.
And if he stays, how do I stop being a doormat and let him keep "cake eating"?
I'm going to buy the darn book today, enough with the waiting!!!
And so your wife is no longer in the house? How is that going? How are you able to work towards reconciliation while she is off with OM?
