About to separate....

[mamabird]

Of course you shouldn't be ok with it, but DON'T MOVE OUT!!!!! Do you think she could be bluffing? My H threatened to do the same, but he's still here. Granted, we are not exactly living in paradise, but he hasn't moved out.

If she does move out, you still have the right to see your kids. You can get a separation agreement if you need to. I am not a lawyer but there may be some legal issues not in her favor if she tries to take the kids. You should probably consult a divorce attorney if you can at this point, just to get the lay of the land.

At this point, you gotta let her go, as hard as that seems. What you're doing is only going to push her away further.

She is going to threaten you up and down and sideways... be prepared.