I am a newcomer here and am in desperate need of advice. My H and I have been together 13 years. We have been married for one year this month. Though we've had our fair share of probs my H told me 3 months into our marriage that if we didn't go to counseling he would leave. So we went, to just 3 sessions. Things got better and by the 7th month of our marriage he was an anxiety ridden mess and left me because he needed space. I was a wreck and did everything I shouldn't do according to DB. Then, I somewhow convinced him to come back home for a week to try but he was such mess I realized he needed his space.
I gave him space in faithfulness, come to find out he was cheating on me with someone he went to highschool with and reconnected back with on facebook. She was unhappy in her marriage and now her and my H are together. I went from texting, begging, crying, pleading, and calling him to absolutley nothing. This OW has children she left in another state with their Father to be here with my H. They are now living together. My H would have never done this before. I knew we had probs but never expected him to cheat and abandon me. The families of all involved are devastated to say the least and he is convinced that this OW is a good girl and he's desperatley trying to get his family to like her. Realizing that he is in deep honeymoon phase with her. What should I be doing right now? He's been away for 3 months but I have stopped all contact within the last 3-4 weeks kinda doing the 180. Please any advice is very much appreciated! Thank you!
