Sh!t, far from it smile Hell, I have no problem owning up to my fare share. Most people want to do all the finger pointing and that’s were a lot of people get into trouble. I will not deny my share of the breakdown in our marriage.

I was very needy, heavy duty pursuer, clingy, poor communicator, lacked self confidence and was very fiscally irresponsible. W comes from a family were her father covered everything, the sole bread winner and put all the kids through college. MIL had a tough job too because being a mother of 4 kids is no easy task.

The point I am making is that my W feels the husband should be the main provider, make sure things are taken care of, bills paid, savings intact, etc…I understand, I get that. It’s a bit frustrating because I might have been out of work a week or two over the last 15 years, it’s not like I am this lazy bum just sitting on my ass! According to W, the financial mess was the straw that broke the camel’s back.

At the end of the day, this describes the improvements I need to make for ME, regardless of the outcome.