Tumbling, I am happy for you. Great job taking charge! My coach would say that if your H is being receptive, is okay to contact him once in a while. If you perceive resistance/discomfort, back away. If he seems to enjoy the calls/meetings, then keep them going. Also, if he ever says no to a meeting or call, it's important that you react in a positive way. He is watching your reaction when things don't go your way...