sorry she said 80% was HER fault for not speaking up --
Lose the scorecard. What that MAY really mean (TO HER) is you were horrible to her but can't help it, and she was a martyr...which she now regrets... so don't bother trying to figure out or comprehend the incomprehensible...it wastes such precious time and energy that you COULD be using on creating a new happy fulfilling life for you and your son.
GAL!!
but DO go to the concert. If you don't, you are choosing to be a doormat. Don't stop her b/c 1) you cannot and 2) you'll look petty and weak for trying
but do not cave in and not go yourself.
JUST GO and get a sitter if you have to (she should be the one to get a sitter but we don't expect her to now do we?)
So take charge of your life and begin by taking charge of that night...
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
