Hey 25! I wouldn't be a free agent for long if I got into a committed relationship. Yes, that could easily happen for me but I haven’t put much thought into it. I would probably start dating if I got divorced but that's not my focus right now.
The point your trying to make is there's no rush, it's a time to heel, not make the same mistakes all over again and to understand who you are and what you want? Allow more time to go by after divorce before getting into a relationship, right? I believe your saying that most people can’t make improvements and they will be in the same boat all over again.
Who’s to say it’s a bad idea to be in a relationship after a divorce? Does this mean everyone is considered to have co-dependency issues if they don’t live there life solo for a set period of time? I am not trying to be a d!ck, just trying to understand your logic, thanks.