H is such an enigma... Today I was perusing DB and he asked me what I was looking at. I answered "Oh, nothing much. Did you need the computer?" He pressed, asked three or four more times before I said I was just reading a site about people who have things in common with our situation.

He told me I shouldn't dwell on it. Is coming here dwelling? I don't think of it that way because I use it to remind myself to move forward. I am strategizing to GAL, not wallowing in the muck of despair.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.