It all came to a head around 8/22. We decided to do this, so I moved into my parents (I know!!!). She immediately went to an attorney, and filed.
Why did she file so quickly? Is she engaged in an affair? Usually when someone moves that fast there's a reason for it. How long is the waiting interval in your state before a D can be finalized? Some states have gone to a year which in my opinion is a very wise move because many marriages reconcile in the 6 month to a year range.
Regardless, it's never too late to reconcile. Reconciliations do happen even after D. Get DR, read it and implement the strategies. There's a ton of wisdom in the threads here too, plus there's a lot of hope to be gained from reading the success stories. Good luck!
