Welcome and sorry you find yourself here. While the book arrives read the 37 rules at the top of the newcomers thread. You say 80% was you? What did/didn't do? How old are you guys? Are u in counseling? post often as you are in moderation at 1st


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden