Hi LaBug and Bustingout
What would be different if H was out of the picture?
Not that much activity wise BUT I wouldn't have this "what's doing with my M?" on my mind.

Labug you're absolutely right to no longer wait for H to make up his mind. I CAN make up MY mind. I can make my OWN decision about this situation.

So I am on my AMAZING path and at some point I will make a decision of whether t keep standing or not.

Right now I am still standing but I live, don't wait.
All good things to my virtual friends
Tumbling

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"