before, i would be the one to initiate or not, and if not, i'd have so much anxiety about what he was going to do...every day, every minute, even.

SS I lifted this from part of what you wrote on RoRobinMD's thread. It really struck a chord in me. Felt better to know that the feelings are shared.


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home