Hi Zoo!
I can relate to some of your sit. One being wanting more sex and feeling like h doesn't want it. And the other, is my h getting angry when I bring up r stuff.

Anyhow, I had a phone session with Joann today and I am all inspired. I'll ask you some of the same q's she asked me:

What makes him want sex more? What are you doing/saying or not doing/not saying? What is happening when he wants it?
How can you do more of what works and less of what doesn't work?

ttys
karen