I'm in the process of beginning my homework. Thank you. Have a few new developments. Wife will be officially moving out on Friday to her new apartmnet. Her family are supporting her have volunteered to move some of our stuff to her new place. So we had dinner last night and it went okay, but I felt very strained. She kept asking if I was okay and if I was sure I was okay. I kept saying I was good! Today she started the day off with several texts that included that she wants to re-evaluate our situation in nine months, since she'll need to let her new landlord know if she wants to extend after the initial year. She's also created a contract that discusses finances and who can do what when. I'm still reviewing that document. Today’s texts include (since she does not want to talk about this face to face) is that, "I want you to know that this is the hardest thing I have ever done and although I still feel that I am doing the right thing (by moving out) it is not without heartache that I take these steps.... My response: I am sorry you are struggling so bad and I'm sure you will be the person you are meant to be Her response: I am not struggling so bad-I just want you to know that I value what we had/have and I am not wanting to throw away anything I just want to move forward in a way that I feel I have to while being as caring and loving as I can... My response: Thank you. So what do I do with all of this? Is she having a MLC or has she just gone down a path of I’ve fallen out of love with you. I am soooo confused and frustrated at this time.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...