Quote: You are in a position and place where you can say what you are feeling or what is worrying you. And there may be anger or frustration on both parts, but that is SO much better than NOTHING. What I would give to be there.
Well, I am ot always in this position I really struggle with timing whne it comes to this stuff. There are times when I say something R-wise to H and he totally goes off the handle...then I get the silent treatment and end up coming on here and lamenting like an idiot, panic-stricken adn beating myself up
Once I survive the anger and H calms down we can SOMETIMES have the EXACT same convo and it'll then be constructive and we both walk away learning something new
Like I said...DB is a way of life and can always use some fine-tuning.
Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
I really struggle with timing whne it comes to this stuff. There are times when I say something R-wise to H and he totally goes off the handle...then I get the silent treatment and end up coming on here and lamenting like an idiot, panic-stricken adn beating myself up 
