Just get there and bust your tail over the weekend.
Totally agree. Whatever it takes to get there, get it done.
I remember one woman who presented said that while she did agree to go to retrouvaille with her H, she demanded a separate room. Pretty amazing that years later they were actually healed, happy, and presenting to help others. Another couple we attended with were scheduled for D a few weeks later...the H wasn't even sure if his W was going to show up to the thing. She did and they began reconciliation that weekend. I always liked seeing them at the post sessions...inspirational.
Of course, I've said this before, you only get out of it what you put in it, so be prepared to work your tail off as LITB said.
