Just be thankful that he's willing to go at all. The fact that he recognizes/remembers your fear of bridges and wanted to check on you to make sure you were good to drive is a bonus.

From what I've heard, it's possible to have some pretty major changes in thought after attending this. If your H is the type of guy that needs to be alone to process his thoughts, it might be good for him to be able to do that on his own.

Again, just be thankful that he's going. That is a huge step. And of course, let us know how it goes. I'm still hopeful that I'll be able to get my H to attend one eventually.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13