Other than her possibly finding out, I would suggest taking a course is never a bad thing -- even on this topic as you gain knowledge and own some control over decisions, etc. It may have a negative affect making you feel like this is inevitable, but I think you more than hint that it is a possibility. It is another way to improve yourself even if hopefully you never need the knowledge. I pray you dont but support the idea of learning.
M:44 W:41 M: 12 yrs W's EA began 3/12 Somewhere between WAW and MLC Still in same house
