Yes, I worked hard to get to where we are right now but the one thing i can't stress enough is that the work is continual...you NEVER stop having to DB, it does become a way of life.
Quote: I am constantly impressed my how much effort the LBS puts into reviving the M, especially when the WAS seems to have NO interest and though I may not see it right now, it gives me hope. You appear to have done an amazing job.
That is the whole concept of "it takes one to Tango". The LBS HAS to do all the work since they are the one who DOESN'T want the M to fail. They are the one to initiate the changes necessary and they usually go it alone except for the support and guidance they get from the BB. I don't know that I am one to admire much though, there are some on the BB who have been doing this for YEARS and persevere and refuse to give up. It proves that if you want and believe in something bad enough you are WILLING to do WHATEVER it takes to make it happen. It often means setting aside a certain amount of pride, bending your moral values and taking a great deal of verbal and emotional bashing...for me it was worth it in the long run though. I still have issues I am working through and while I may vent and lament on occasion I know that eventually they will become non-issues...I AM that determined.
Quote: But you recognize your "moods" and know now how to handle them. Great strides, I suspect.
LOL...sometimes I think it really sucks that I recognize my moods. It tends to take away any ability to wallow in them and enjoy ( ) them for any length of time. I actually may have chased down the current culprit for my moody state and it is making me none to happy.
Hope to see you posting on other's threads as well
Hugz, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
) them for any length of time. I actually may have chased down the current culprit for my moody state and it is making me none to happy.
