best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

The advice on this board is great. Although sometimes I feel like I am talking to politicians, I don't quite understand.

She has started the paperwork and needs my info. How do I say no without adding fuel to the fire. Yeah I could say I won't help and you will have to see a lawyer, but I do not want this to get ugly. I know that she will not be able to afford a house on her own. I also know that I am in no position to tell her that.