Get a L and then the cost of the whole things goes up. You might wait and see if she asks again, but what would your response be if you asked for something that you needed and she wasn't forthcoming?
You can't stop it if this is what she really wants. I'm in the camp that believes it most likely adds fuel to the fire of why they are leaving and it's game-playing.
You don't have to jump when she says jump, gather what she's asking for and get it to her on your timeline.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
