Zoo, That is why H and I didn't do gifts, someone always is unhappy or let down. For Christmas I did buy him some things. Something he said he wanted while we were shopping and a few things he use to like. I haven't seen him wear anything I bought him. So now I feel like I wasted my money and he didn't like what I bought him.
Then I read that I wasn't suppose to give him gifts right now...I had bought him a gift for his birthday and when i mentioned it to him he seemed annoyed that I bought him something. So I didn't give it to him. I still have it and figured someday maybe I could give it to him or just keep it myself.
Maybe it is a kind word or act that works better than anything. Gifts are NOT my H's or my love language!
As for talking about gardens and poultry; maybe we could do that in Just for Fun. Or e-mail me at willow12960@yahoo.com
