feeling sad, sad, sad. I feel like my husband is going cold and shutting down - he dies that so well, he can cut off his feelings like the flick of a switch. I worry for him, he is on his own in a rented flat and his support network not as strong as mine. I know it was his decision to leave but I can't help but worry how he is. I want to call him, text him etc just to check he is ok. I won't of course, I know I have to leave contact upto him and begin to 'detach'. He has only been gone 3 days and already I feel lost and scared and miss him so very much.
Believe none of what he says and half of what he does. Have NO EXPECTATIONS. Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
You are on moderation right now on the forum. SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it. Stick to this thread until 100 posts for your story.
Your H is giving you a GIFT. THE GIFT OF TIME. Use it wisely.
