Brooklyn is right...He put you in a no-win situation to justify his behavior. If you apologize you are patronizing, if you stand up for yourself you are bullying him, if you step out of it, you are ignoring him. KG, you might have to say just THAT^^ to him some time. He wants you in a lose lose b/c he has a lot to justify these days and honestly, his anger is quite misplaced.
Get your internal dialogue straight and stay on message. Make sense? -!
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