After 18 months - H is finally filing.

[jks]

Just read your conversation you had with H and I almost felt like I was listening to me and my H. I could envision some of those same sentences coming out of his mouth... and mine.

Just know that you're not the only one that had a M like this. It's like to perfectly good people get into a perfectly bad situation without even knowing that it's happening.

I agree very much with RegretfulLA, if you can at this point, try to build trust. The way I see it, if they can see that you really aren't crazy like they once thought you were and that you really have made changes and they have rooted, like busting said. Their thoughts about you will change. Whether that means you ever get back together, who knows. But it will definitely give them something to think about. Maybe not right now but in time it will.

I really feel for you and I'm sorry you had to go through such a hard conversation.