best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I should have added some on where my w is coming from on this whole deal. She does not like the place she is renting, neither does my son. She can't consider buying anything until she is no longer listed on our mortgage. She says age can't get past this(her unhappiness) until she is in a better home. Yes I know it is total bs. Do I ask her if she will put the d on hold if we can find a way to get her name of the mortgage without a d? And then agree to a voluntary child support amount?