best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I appreciate all the great advice, and yes sometimes I feel like a figure skater spinning in a circle.

Rough, by all means I am not angry. In my head I was going for tough love with that previous post. I would say that most of the time I am very happy with myself. Yes I get waves of pain and confusion. But the anger hasn't been around in a long time. I made the choice very early on that I was not going to be angry and bitter. Maybe if I didn't have two children, I might not have handled it that way. So in that regard I have them to thank for starting me on the high road.

As far as the d goes I am at a loss for how to derail it. She is doing it online and has asked me for my info as far as income, debt, health care costs and so on. So I can't just say no you can't have that info.