Still having short conversations here and there with the wife. It's kinda funny I call to tell the kids goodnight tonight and after I am done she gets on the phone. I can tell she wants to talk but at the same time doesn't. She will start to say something then just stop mid sentence and hand the phone off to one of the kids then get back on the phone and pretend like she was not going to say anything.

We are planning my daughter birthday party together in November so that gives us something to talk about.... Nine years of marriage and never once has she asked for help in planning any of my three kids birthdays. I am enjoying the interactions but not reading too much into it nor expecting anything out of it. Baby steps, be her friend, no expectations, enjoy life.


M:30
W:31
D:6&1
S:3
Married 9 years 8/8/2012
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Bomb Dropped: July 2012
Legally Separated: 8/3/2012