I wish I would have found this forum before now. I am a h and my w has filed for D, and I was served last week. I don't know where to start, but I can say that I have done everything wrong up to this point. We have been married for almost nine years, and we separated 5 weeks ago. Our marriage was never the best, and most (80%) was on me. There were many symptoms of this, but the main cause of the unhappiness was the fact that I didn't love and cherish her like I promised. It all came to a head around 8/22. We decided to do this, so I moved into my parents (I know!!!). She immediately went to an attorney, and filed. The hearing that I have to go to is a temporary hearing for child support. We have two D. I don't want this, and I have been trying to convince her that this isn't the right move. After much research, I have found this to be the worst thing I could have done. I have bought the book on Amazon, and it should arrive in a week. I didn't want to bombard you with information, but I will answer any question you may have. I am just looking for some help.
