Very valid point Wendy!! grin I bet your hair looks super cute too!!!

Thanks Snodderly!

He did tell me last night my hair looks cute, he actually asked me why I decided to get it cut because, "you've had the same hair your entire life." Since he asked I told him the story about my co-workers. Last night I also had a quote in my head that I have hanging on the wall at work. So I said to him a few minutes later, "Helen Keller once said life is either a daring adventure or nothing. I decided to go with daring adventure." and then I walked away.

Tonight H seemed in an ok mood, made small talk about house stuff (trash day changed, stuff to take to bulk drop off, etc). However, he seemed to get irritated when I made dinner and set the table (my counselor suggested this). He ate dinner. When he came out to make his plate everything was on the table, he said kind of annoyed is it going to be a problem if I eat in there (meaning the living room). I said no, enjoy! After eating I was cleaning up the mess (he did thank me for cooking) he went downstairs for a bit, maybe some time to think away from me,he's back upstairs now. I'm keeping my distance..... small pleasant interactions, don't want to overwhelm him.