After 18 months - H is finally filing.

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H sent me a text a couple of hrs. ago:

"I have been thinking about yesterday... thinking about my attitude...thinking about our interactions.
I'm sorry if I hurt you. It was not my intent at all. I don't want it to come out that way.
I think the best thing we can do moving forward is to make an agreement to not bring up the past. It's so hurtful for both of us. Whaddya think?"

I am digesting it...

a) Part of me would like to ask to expand on his thoughts about what happened yesterday and our interactions in general. At this point in our R I am completely clueless of what he could be thinking that prompted him to apologize.

b) Part of me would like to say that I don't want to just brush everything off like nothing matters because then we will never improve our R, even if just for co-parenting our kids. And that I feel he just wants to run away or avoid our issues, like in the past (like when he left).

c) And part of me would just like to reply with one word: "Sure."

Any thoughts or comments are welcome and appreciated.