Hello all, been a while. Well things are moving along, we are getting separated in about a month, though it will start as of July. She is still in the fog with her boyfriend and we are still heading for a divorce, unfortunately.
I really wish I knew about this site from the beginning. The things I did in the first month really did push her away too far. She tells me its that stuff that made her want the OM more than me, and that she wants to give him a chance. I'm afraid nothing I did after that really helped much, as she was too far gone.
I really appreciate all the help I got here. It helped me to survive the most difficult time I ever have experienced.
____________________________________ Me: 42 WW: 46 Married: 14y D-Day: 5/18/2012 D 12, S 8 Status: In my room, but A Continues