best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I am not really sure how to proceed. I would rather not get lawyers involved based on the financial aspect. I don't want to have to sit down with her and try and do it ourselves, so it seems the best alternative is mediation. I guess I am not sure how to proceed. Is dragging it out for as long as possible the way to go? If she thinks she needs a d to make her happy, isn't me trying to stall it basically persueing?

What to say now that I have agreed to mediation?