By all means I am not done either. I share your confidence in that I am a great catch as well. What I am saying is that in my sitch she believes that a d will make her happy. I feel if I try to stall it will be the same as persuing(sp). If it takes a d for her to find that out so be it. I am not quite detached enough for a new relationship yet anyway. This may help me. I think complete detachment is necessary before I can objectively think about taking her back.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on