One other thought...I am sorry it didn't work out for W's work, that would have made things so much easier...but you know what is said about easy things, difficult things and which is more worthwhile...
Both you and W are being asked to make some difficult choices it appears...both of you will have to look at yourselves and what really matters in life.
Make the best choices.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
