Just checking in. Doing work around the house. W has been moody but I'm not letting her moods have an effect on me anymore. Tomorrow is our 20th Wedding Anniversary. I plan on getting her a card not sure if I should make a big deal of it considering we aren't "techinally" together according to her. SIGH. What to do?
What a coincidence, our 20th is coming up shortly as well. In my case W has moved out, so I don't plan on doing anything. No card, no call, no email, nothing. For now our marriage only exists on paper, so there's no point acknowledging (much less celebrating) it. Your sitch may be different since you're still under the same roof. You might go ahead and get a card, then wait to see if your W gives you one or says anything to you, then you can give yours to her if you feel it's warranted.
