Thanks Busting for posting on my thread last week.

I, too, struggle not to overfunction when I see something positive.
I have been known to dive in with a jack hammer as you say as well as:
pound on the castle door;
throw stones at the window;
lob things over the castle wall;
wave my banners and ribbons; and even
twirl my fire batons in my personal majorette show just for H
but thanks to you and the others who have advised me in ways to stop the ride, I am learning to chillout on my blanket.

Like you, I am realising he knows where I am
but
what he doesn't know is my focus is switched to loving me more than wanting this ride in my life, if that makes sense.

Just wanted to drop in and say thanks.
Tumbling

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"