I concur. Straight up, bam! You got that right AT laugh. Look, Eyesopen (no pun intended). This is how I view it. Everyone’s perspective is different, everyone doesn’t see things the same way. Sh!t, look at Mrs D, she’s fighting for her marriage and she’s divorced, there's ALWAYS HOPE. Each sitch is different and yes, for some it's just a piece of paper, I get that alright.

Personally speaking, I am fighting for my marriage right NOW. W might not know it but I am putting all my blood, sweat and tears into it. I gotta great heart and I know I am a good catch. I can’t predict the future but if I get divorced, chances are good that I am done! I have to consistently remind myself that I am not in a rush right now. My reasoning is that if we get divorced I don’t feel I will be a “free agent” for long.