Perhaps you need to sit down and discuss allocating a budget for personal spending money and then allow each other to get on with it. Otherwise the one sidedness and frustration and resentment will never end! And it will be seen to be FAIR!!! And neither of you will have to JUSTIFY what you spent your money on! We all need a bit of pace, even in a marriage, right??
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
