lol yes i was so worried about being 'found' that i practically locked myself into an account with me and no one else. i think it is sorted now.
Thanks KD for helping me out :-) I am not sure if i have the 'right' one for you?
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home