Ok Snodderly, yep i allow him time in my head rent free. I admit this. But it also helps me see him for what he TRULY IS right now.
So my first question is why would he even say this knowing it could get back to me, yet purposely turn around and play faces?
But then I realize more than likely by the time he's playing good face with me, he's forgotten the mean face he put on to OW about me infront of D9.....LOL!!!
Then if I even bothered to bring it up with him in the first place, well he could deny it , and then have that much justification for why he left me in the first place! Then go belly aching to OW about how I purposely pick fights with him.
So as I look at that objetively, if I chose to react to these things he does and confront him, then he's set a steel trap for me either way. He's got OW snowed into thinking Im seriously emotionally distubed and stalking him, yet would deny it to my till the cows come home and turn every word I speak to him around to make it look like all my fault, and I've caused him tremendous pain!
I just realized something. I have expectations of this man alright, I do! I expect him to act like nothing but a manipulative Borderline Personality!! That's all!
It's when he starts acting SANE that I get scared, and always have.
