If you are working together on the M, then do you have an agreement on how money gets spent - basic bills take priority, then an allocation for personal spending, without having to consult the other person? How does H get to spend money on himself on things you do not think important, but not you?
Secondly, if you have made a list of things YOU would like, why does HE get to veto things on it?
Household appliances are NOT personal, but so many of us women wind up receing gifts like that, because we are forever thinking practically...!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
