I also am trying to keep her from having the freedom of a single person
Stop this. You can't. It is out of your control. if she is in MLC, she will do what she wants. Sorry. If you D, she will do this, if you don't, right now, she will do this if she wants...been there my friend...so take that out of the picture and what do YOU want to do about the concert? Maybe arrange a sitter anyway, take care of your kids... AS IF she wasn't there... Know what I mean?
This is hard, letting go of control of her and the outcome, but vital...for any hope of a R, and any hope for YOUR
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keep her from having the freedom....
...think about how that sounds...
You are wasting valuable time to work on YOU!
hope that helps some... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
